Whinings of the week

So, I found the culprit of Abby's recently developed foul mouth. Her name is Olivia and she's 4 1/2. I picked Abby up today and she asks me if "kill" is a bad word. I told her it depends, but it's not something you should say to people. I know it sounds dumb but she's 4 1/2 I can't get too detailed. Then she asks what's feces and is it a bad word. GEEZ! I asked her where she's hearing these words.......Olivia. I will have to talk to the teacher tomorrow. When I asked Abby if she told the teacher she said no "we aren't supposed to tattle tail". This teacher needs to be specific on what not to tattle on because clearly my child is the opposite of me....and follows rules. There are always going to be kids who are exposed to more than the next one and you can't be everywhere all the time, but this teacher setting a "tattle tail" rule I think encourages this behaviour and also on some level makes the children that have been taught differently, think it's ok. I agree every time John Doe says hush, that doesn't need to be reported. The teacher should make clear that bad words, or someone harming you should be reported. I may be overanaylizing but, whatever.

On another note. It's been one week since I should have taken my depo shot and, some weird things are happening in my temple. lol My right nipple is sore as all get out! And some other things I'll spare the details on, and no I'm not pregnant. I've just been on that shot since Abby was born, actually 4 months after Abby was born. I think weird things are expected to happen until my body is back to normal. Phillip and I "discussed" and I use that loosely, having a baby this past weekend. His take on it is the same as everything else that requires thought and planning....I have to do it! Basically I'm not going to take birth control, and when I get knocked up we'll decide a plan of action. (insert rolling eyes here) He did say he doesn't want to send "her" he's already convinced it will be a girl, I don't care either way, but he doesn't want her to go to daycare. So guess what that means....Marteel gives up independence and her own money again. That part I'll decide when I get there. I really like Primrose where Abby is, and I think I would feel confident leaving my 6 week old there. Who knows. I'm not real excited about being a stay at home mommy again. I loved staying home with Abby that 2 1/2 years but, I was in desperate need of adult interaction, and I found it made me feel alot crazier than I already am. LMAO The future is yet to be seen.