Tis the season I suppose

Our tree, and our lame attempt at being festive on the outside. LOL



I lost my tree skirt. I have to go buy a new one. That cat doesn't move!

Marriage Survey

I stole this from my SIL.

How long have you been married? it's not official but, together 6 1/2 years

Is this your first marriage? Me, no. Phillip it will be.

Is it how you imagined it would be? I never planned to be married

What would you change? Our communication

Are you married to your soulmate? I don't believe in that nifnaw

What do you argue about the most? him trying to make me korean by being a 50's housewife

What do you see eye to eye on the most? HAHA

Where did you meet your spouse? my brother

Where was your first date? a club (can't remember the name now, it was a friends birthday)

Where were you when you became engaged? at our old apartment

Did you live together before marriage? Yep, and still doing it

What was your wedding song? Don't have one but, it will be What's Love by Fat Joe

Who was in your wedding party? your mom (i couldn't resist)

Do you get along with the in-laws? now that's funny. I try to.

Whats your view on children? Well...we have one....

Does your spouse feel the same way?ahem

Are you a 2 peas in a pod or opposites attract couple? more like two shits in the toilet

Do you go out without your spouse? I hardly go out, but when I do it's usually girls night.

How long are you away from your spouse before you start to miss him/her? depends on the day! LOL!

Have you ever compared your spouse to someone you have dated in the past? no

Do you trust your Spouse? I'm almost there

Does your Spouse trust you?Yes.

How well does your spouse know your favorites? hardly

Do you get along with your spouses friends? Yes.

Does your spouse get along with your friends?Yes.

Did you go on a honeymoon? no, but damn I can't wait to

Do you watch the same TV shows? nope

Can you agree on Pizza toppings? Yes

Who takes out the trash? he does

Who does laundry?? both of us, and by that I mean when I leave it in the dryer for a week he finally folds it

Who cooks dinner? Me

Do you have any traditions? not really

Do you know your spouses passwords/pins? nope and I don't care to

Does your spouse know your social security number? no

Do you ever nag your spouse? actually...no

Do you admit wrong doing? yes, or we wouldn't still be together

Does your spouse? yes, see above

The surgeon

So...I got to see a surgery today. =) I feel VERY special(not speshul, which is normally what it is), the other M.A.'s doctors have never asked them to stand in on a surgery before but, mine asked me!! It was very cool. I would use all the fancy terms but, then you wouldn't know what the hell I was talking about. He corrected a deviated septum, and enlarged this patients turbinates. Basically he cut away bone and flesh that was constricting the nasal passage, and enlarged behind the sinuses for better drainage....I think. LOL I saw it in person AND on an HD t.v.. VERY interesting.

Things were a bit better today. I'm learning and getting the hang of it. I've already deciphered who hates me and will try and cause me trouble, so I avoid those girls. Yeah they're girls not women, which is worse. They aren't too much younger than me but, they sure as fuck act like it. Anywho, there is a lack of humor in this place aside from my doctor. He is funny and likes to be sarcastic. The rest of them have a snow shovel stuck up their ass or something. Anyway, I was very excited today and I feel very privileged.

Well good night, and in case I don't see you...good morning and good afternoon. ;)

Random

Not much going on here. I started my new job this past Thursday. My first 2 days were no bueno. We'll see if it gets better. Phillip and Abby were gone Tuesday- Friday this past week to California. Phillip's grandmother is not doing well, so they went to visit. I did absolutely nothing with myself the whole time. It was great.

People and their Christmas lights are really starting to get on my nerves. I mean....can we not at least get to Thanksgiving first!!?? I'm going to do our tree the same this year, purple and silver ornaments. We have a pre-lit tree with clear lights because I'm that lazy. =) Last year I just did net lights for our bushes, and some candy canes. We bought one of those big blow up decorations for like $160, Phillip let Abby play with it and we never put it in the yard, I ended up telling Phillip to take it back. So I'm going to Garden Ridge this weekend and to get some more decorations.

That's all I really have here. I've been in an icky place the past few weeks. I feel like I fell in the Grand Canyon and I have to climb my way out....only I have no gear. =( Well.. Merry Christmas, since everyone is doing everything in fucking fast forward this year!

Halloween!

Here they are. I didn't take my camera when I went to that party but, as soon as I get pics I will post those.

I GOT IT!!

I got the job!!!! Yay me! I start on the 11/20. I can't wait! Hopefully I will start gaining some energy back. I am SO exhausted. Thanks to everyone who was thinking of me. :) I will post some pics from Halloween tomorrow.

Very anxious

So I went on my interview this past Tuesday. It was originally scheduled for Monday, but she called Monday and rescheduled. THAT was nerve wracking. I was fully prepared for her to call and cancel and say they'd already found someone. She didn't though. So I went Tuesday, the interview went well, I could tell she really liked me. I gave her a small dose of my personality while I was in there. Sometimes that's good, sometimes it's not. I'm a straight shooter and it is very difficult for me to be something I'm not. Most people will tell you don't be yourself (in general not just me) and do research on the company, and basically go in and say what they want to hear. I don't do that. If I have to pretend to be something I'm not, that isn't the job I need. After the interview she gave me a tour of the office. We happened to run into the doctor that is looking for an M.A.. He's young, only been in practice 6 years. She walked me to the door and said she would definitely be in touch, that she was going to speak to the doctor about me.

Thursday morning she calls and asks if I could come at 4:30 and meet with the doctor. I was supposed to stay late at my current job that day but ended up leaving early. LOL I went, and I was so NERVOUS. I'm normally not like that. At first he appeared to be way too soft spoken for me. He's one of those people that regardless of what he's saying his tone never changes pitch. People like that are hard to understand sometimes. As he kept talking I could see his personality come through. He does have a sense of humor, if he hadn't I wouldn't even be considering the job. He bought his share of this practice. The other 2 doctors have been practicing for 20 and 30 plus years. He is coming in and trying to modernize, and build clientale.

In this interview they got a BIG dose of me. I answered questions directly and didn't really hold back. Sometimes that can hurt me because people can find me to be too pushy. I felt good in the interview, I made them laugh, and such, I felt comfortable. AFTER I left the interview I wasn't much feeling that way. I thought I had blown it. I was sick to my stomach because I really want the job. So I did what most people would call the worst mistake.......I called yesterday. Yep, sure did. It's all about me really, I didn't want my weekend ruined so I took action. I thought the doctor really liked me but, I felt like I might have been too forward. So I called the office manager and thanked her for the interview, I told her I wasn't sure what type of an impression I made on the doctor ( she interuppted me and , a good one) so I said good, because I really want this job. YEAH I DID! She said good to know and asked my bottom dollar.

I wish the ending to this was I got the job, but that just happened yesterday so I may not hear before Tuesday. If they pay me my bottom dollar I will probably be the highest paid M.A. period. M.A.'s don't typically make over $14 an hour. He said he was willing to pay for quality. If he wants me he's going to have to. I'm a C.N.A./C.M.A. which is higher than an M.A. because I can give meds. I also have 8 years of patient care experience. Phillip thinks they're going to lowball me since he says "I begged for the job". When they ask for "bottom" dollar, usually if they aren't going to meet that, then they call and say sorry we aren't going to be able to afford to pay what you're asking. In which case, back to the drawing board. Right now it just depends on whether the doctor is willing to pay like he said he was, or hope there isn't another candidate. I'm going to try and go to work on Monday and not think about it. Cross your fingers for me.

On another note, Abby went trick or treating last night and got TONS of candy. She was snow white, and the prettiest one I ever saw. I took pics and will post later. We went to a friends house and ate and then took the girls to get candy, and watched scary movies (without the kids of course). I have a Halloween costume party to go to tonight. It's mandatory dress up so yes, I will be dressing up. This will be the first time I've dressed up for Halloween my whole life. I'm going to be Little Red Riding Hood punk/goth style. It's pretty hot actually. Sexy not slutty. This is the first time I've gone out by myself in a long time. I'm excited!

That's all the excitement I have for now, I will keep you posted about the job.